tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3232675507605095180.post4004757756043926264..comments2023-10-20T00:54:43.500-07:00Comments on The Very Unofficial Adult: school sucks and so do ROOMMATESKristen Alexishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04826701169630385358noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3232675507605095180.post-52504626462535404882011-01-10T21:25:19.720-08:002011-01-10T21:25:19.720-08:00Hi! Sorry about this situation. I'm 20, so I&#...Hi! Sorry about this situation. I'm 20, so I'm probably around your age. I understand what you are going through because I am not fond of rude people either & especially if a roommate is rude, that is not good at all. Since you are living with them, it's probably best to tell the person you are mad at in a nice way, that you want to talk to them about something that is bothering you. <br /><br />It is possible because there are 3 of you, that one is going to feel left out or not include you, or even make you feel like an outcast. To be honest 3 is sometimes hard to deal with. I in the past hung out with 2 other girlfriends from school & I felt left out.<br /><br />I advise you to talk with the person that you are mad at just you & her alone, because if the other girl is present it may stir up tention between people if you know what I mean. Say for example one time after class you are both in your dorms & just pull her aside & just be like "Hey (insert name) , can I talk to you for a few minutes?", I'm sure as long as you are nice to her (you seem like a very sweet girl) that she will be receptive & talk to you. <br /><br />Now if that doesn't work then maybe she is not a real friend after all & possibly see if you can switch dorms with one other person someone who isn't rude. First try that attempt & see how that goes. If it doesn't go well, know that it's not you, it's her problem.<br /><br />Good luck.<br /><br />I wish you the best!!!<br /><br />Hope you have a great week!<br /><br />Btw, thanks for your nice comment about my future teaching job, good luck with yours too!Alessandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15725636858175014073noreply@blogger.com